The First Date Motive

The purpose for you going on a date in the first place, is to find someone who you can eventually become exclusive with, right? Of Course, love is in the season for all reason! Your first date motives should be to deliver the best about you without making yourself look so unoriginal. Dress to the occasion and be relaxed and mellow.  If you and your date are going to the movies, wear casual pants if you are a guy and if you are a woman wear something that is cute and comfy. Don’t overdress to a place that is meant for relaxation. If you two and going to dinner, wear something formal  but while getting dressed keep in mind that what else will you two be doing after the dinner date (that way you can dress accordingly). Keep conversations nonchalant and don’t hit on topics that may cause distress. For instance, if your mother left your father when you were 16 and you attempted to commit suicide, keep this conversation for another time. No one, especially someone who doesn’t know you from Adam, wants to hear about something so depressing. Although, this (or any heartbreaking story) is very sensitive to you and something you actually may have experienced in life, this is something you want to share on date 3, 4 or down the line. Show that you are excited about the date, about the person you are with and about the future that you two may have. Talk about relevant things that should be addressed on the first date such as; age, kids (if any), hobbies, likes and dislikes. Get to know things about your date that maybe appealing to you for later dates and share also, things you may find interesting about yourself that they may also find intriguing. Your motive is to not only play the game but win it! Win the potential heart of your date by being everything they have dreamt of about going on a first date and about the person they are on a date with. Keep in mind; this may be their first date or their 7th time going on a date so you want to make sure you leave a lasting impression. If you are interested in going on another date with them, your motive is to let them know that. Not by telling them but by showing them. A woman or man wants to see someone again that seems interested in them and excited to want to see them again. Don’t be someone you aren’t; just be someone that people would love to see themselves with. 

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